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About Ashlynn Monroe

Ashlynn Monroe is a busy wife and mom. She enjoys writing about anything and everything paranormal or fantasy related while maintaining a career as a full time customer service professional. When she is not lovingly raising her young family, she is dreaming up her next tale of romance. She’d love to hear from you at

Everything you say can and will be used against you!

Oops Gesture

One of the biggest rookie mistakes of new authors is commenting on posts meant to stir up controversy or trouble.  It’s usually best to be a lurker not a commenter unless you are prepared for the consequences.  There are places on the web that I know because I’m not a best-selling print author I won’t be welcome.  I avoid certain forums and very negative blogs and websites because I have a very positive attitude about starting out in this business and I don’t feel the need to apologize for my work or give an accounting of my profits to the penny to strangers.  Ironically, there are writers who waste valuable writing time getting into the business of others.  Personally, I look to sites like Predator and Editors for my Intel on a publisher and ignore cesspools of negative energy and hateful rhetoric.

Another thing that new authors should be aware of is that reviewers both “professional” and reader have the right not to like your work.  If you decide to reply to a negative review, it should only be to THANK the reviewer for their time and assure them you’ve learned from their words or just leave it at a thank you.  Yes, if you can thank a reviewer it shows you to be both professional and mature, even if it hurts a little.  One bad review won’t make or break your book, but drawing attention to how unfair the reviewer was will only make you look bad and give the negative comments many readers.  If you get a negative review on a place like Goodreads, you can post the good reviews to balance things out, make sure to include the link so people can go the review site and see that it’s a real review.  However, at times you might get an unfair review, even these need to be ignored or thanked.  I very rarely have given a negative review because I genuinely love books.  Self-published or not, I’ve never found a book I didn’t love…honestly!  I’d never be able to be a professional reviewer for that reason.  It takes time and effort to write reviews and I think the reviewers who find both positive and negative things about a book are the most helpful.  If they say I didn’t like book “X” because…and give a valid reason I respect that.  If they don’t write anything but it sucked as a reader I’m smart enough to ignore the review.  Give your readers credit they aren’t dumb if they read reviews to buy books they know how to spot a genuine review and how to interpret it.

Everything you post on the internet is there forever and can be used against you.  Remember this when you Facebook or Tweet too.  Even if the person you bash isn’t a friend of follower it takes one copy and paste for them read every word—even if it’s taken completely out of context so if you wouldn’t say it to their face don’t post about it.  Don’t assume that everyone wants to see you succeed and guard your words as precious.  Assume everything you say is open for controversy, even the most positive and innocent comment can be treated with distain and drama.  You don’t want to be what everyone is talking about unless it’s because your book is a runaway best seller!  Even if you think you are among friends be careful because you might find out that you aren’t and then it’s too late.  I’ve recently learned this about group chats that even a private chat might not be only for the eyes that you posted your words for reading.

Be very careful because no one is looking out for you except you.  Don’t assume that because you’re new no one is watching you’d be surprised just how many people might be paying attention.  I try to be very positive and upbeat so writing such a cautionary post is hard for me, but I really feel that it’s important.  The internet is a lot like virtual high school, so for those of us long out of that scene it can really be tangled web to navigate.  ***wink**

~Ashlynn Monroe



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Blog Talk Radio

Hi my name is Ashlynn Monroe and as a writer I love to meet other authors and learn from them.  My favorite thing about being an author is how much I’ve learned about my craft and about myself.  I started a blog talk radio show every Sunday at 5:30 pm cst so I can talk to other authors and give them a venue to promote themselves.  The show is called mustlovebooks and it’s so fun to do.  I made the choice to give up this writing time to do the show purely for fun.  I also hope it will stimulate interest in my work as well as the authors I promote.

If you are thinking about starting a blog or a blog talk radio show here are some important things to keep in mind.  Unless you have a premium show and sell commercial space (I don’t) you aren’t making any money doing this.  Don’t invest a bunch of money in you blog or your show until you are making at least that amount writing.

Don’t start something and never finish it.  I was really terrible about my blog until I linked it to twitter and Facebook.  Now posting is a time saver and I want to do it.

Make sure your blog is easy to navigate and that people can find the information you want to present.

I actually took the blog off my website and went only with my WordPress blog because it was so much easier for me not to have duplicate information.

Don’t blog unless you have something of value to offer.  As a new writer it’s really hard to build a readership.  I feel that showcasing my fellow authors gives me something interesting to say while attracting readers who may not have heard of me to my blog/radio show. No reader wants to read about your fifteenth rejection for the month or what cereal you ate…leave that for Facebook!

**Hugs**End Rant!  🙂  I hope this is helpful to anyone thinking of starting up a blog or blog talk radio show.


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